Matt & Bianca talk about what to do and NOT do at a house party in The Lifestyle. Also, losing socks and underwear when you play with others and why swingers actually love their birthdays.
Published on Feb 27, 2019
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| Swinging with Your Vanilla Friends - Matt & Bianca | Feb 27, 2019 | 15:57 | oZPhGAG9lHI | Matt & Bianca talk about what to do and NOT do at a house party in The Lifestyle. Also, losing socks and underwear when you play with others and why swingers actually love their birthdays. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Saving Money while Swinging - Matt & Bianca | Feb 14, 2019 | 17:39 | k3uiVTZqJsI | Matt & Bianca talk about numerous ways to save money while still enjoying all The Lifestyle has to offer. From clothes, to hotels, to parties and more. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| How to say NO in the lifestyle - Matt & Bianca | Feb 2, 2019 | 14:23 | BupN6wtz-20 | Matt & Bianca talk about different ways you can say no if someone asks you to play and you aren't interested. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Respecting the other person's spouse while swinging - Matt & Bianca | Jan 11, 2019 | 17:13 | rKNINwpe3FY | Matt & Bianca talk about what to do when you're playing with someone and another tries to join in without asking. Also respecting your play partner's spouse and using alcohol to get comfortable. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Are big age differences ok when you swing? - Matt & Bianca | Dec 31, 2018 | 17:22 | IA1P_85-bgk | Matt & Bianca talk about sex with people of very different ages than yours. Also, BDSM in the lifestyle and if flirty teasing is ok if you don't have plans to play with others. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Real Swinger Interviews with Josh, Jordan & Gina - Matt & Bianca | Dec 11, 2018 | 15:42 | 4kHxbd3lY4E | Matt & Bianca interview their first triad, Josh, Jordan & Gina. They talk about how getting a girlfriend for a couple works, playing as a group and connecting individually. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Real Swinger Interviews with Jason & Meggin - Matt & Bianca | Nov 26, 2018 | 15:11 | tmZ7kX0zI0A | Matt & Bianca talk interview Jason & Meggin, a local swinger couple that have been playing with others for years. They discuss trust, common swinger hurdles and being emotionally monogamous. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Asking for Feedback after Sex - Matt & Bianca | Nov 14, 2018 | 18:01 | U1Rzl89WylE | Matt & Bianca talk about whether you should give feedback when playing with others and if it's ok to ask for it yourself. Also, how to turn down a couple that you've played with in the past but don't want to again. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| How to Be a Hotwife at a Swinger Club - Matt & Bianca | Oct 25, 2018 | 20:53 | qWgqbFYUBc0 | Matt & Bianca talk about alternatives to swallowing. Also, how to be a hotwife at a swinger club and going to Couple's Speed Dating. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| The Wrong Condom Size in The Lifestyle - Matt & Bianca | Oct 2, 2018 | 16:40 | -25XJQ5Sryk | Matt & Bianca talk about an easy conversation starter, what to do if you don't know what size of a condom to offer a guy, and their favorite upcoming lifestyle theme nights. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Houseparty Etiquette for Swingers - Matt & Bianca | Sep 14, 2018 | 18:25 | Eh6USboSaic | Matt & Bianca talk about what to do and NOT do at a house party in The Lifestyle. Also, losing socks and underwear when you play with others and why swingers actually love their birthdays. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| When to Get Naked at A Swinger's Party - Matt & Bianca | Sep 1, 2018 | 14:36 | u4Wp8MEmxDY | Matt & Bianca talk about when there is an imbalance in couples between the man and the woman. Also, when is the right time to get naked at a lifestyle event. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Are there predatory swinger couples? - Matt & Bianca | Aug 23, 2018 | 15:12 | MU08EumP6eY | Matt & Bianca talk about "Sharks", predatory couples that troll the waters looking specifically for new couples to keep to themselves. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Finding out swinger play preferences - Matt & Bianca | Aug 16, 2018 | 14:15 | L81Hi5NrmZc | Matt & Bianca talk about when it's ok to talk to another couple about their sexual preferences. Also, what makes other lifestyle couples fairly easy to spot in public using your "Playdar". Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Jealousy when Swinging with Others - Matt & Bianca | Aug 1, 2018 | 17:58 | 5_hr4Uld-XM | Matt & Bianca talk about what to do when you start feeling jealous that your spouse is having sex with someone else. Also how to reconnect after a night of swinging. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Swinger Codewords and Black Rings - Matt & Bianca | Jul 20, 2018 | 18:59 | VxaIYsrhDsA | Matt & Bianca talk about codewords that swingers often use to move the conversation into the bedroom or stop an experience altogether. Also, wearing a black ring on your right hand as a sign that you're in The Lifestyle. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Intimidated by Other Swingers - Matt & Bianca | Jul 12, 2018 | 16:36 | RjfPRaXXEzI | Matt & Bianca talk about when people are too intimidated by others to ask them to play. Also, picking up hints that someone is interested in playing. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| BDSM 101 with Phil & Michelle - Matt & Bianca | Jul 6, 2018 | 30:33 | gpmsuI_G0u4 | In this, our 40th episode, Matt & Bianca talk to (and get whipped by) Phil & Michelle, two doms that help host the BDSM parties that take place every other Sunday. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Tricks to Meeting the Most People at Lifestyle Events - Matt & Bianca | Jul 1, 2018 | 19:26 | KoLCouKoPxE | Matt & Bianca talk about some amazing tips and tricks to meeting the most people at swinger events and the best ways to strike up conversations with strangers. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Communication When Swinging Separately - Matt & Bianca | Jun 22, 2018 | 16:44 | Jp7NFeR0nYk | Matt & Bianca talk about how to communicate when you're playing separately. Also, do most women in The Lifestyle get their breasts done? And should you be concerned if you have any body scars? Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| What's in Your Swinger Shag Bag? - Matt & Bianca | Jun 15, 2018 | 16:56 | LdUJ7eOa3BE | We go through the list of the things you should always carry on you for a night of swinging. Did they forget anything? Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| How to Get Ready for a Night of Swinging - Matt & Bianca | Jun 8, 2018 | 15:50 | b2ryg8INLhA | We talk about getting into the right state of mind for going to a lifestyle club or event. Also how important is confidence? Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Is it alright for sex to be better with someone besides your spouse? - Matt & Bianca | Jun 1, 2018 | 19:08 | e5guoqj49kc | We talk about the different types of sexual relationships with spouses and is it ok if sex is physically better with someone else. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Reasons to Love the Lifestyle (Besides the Sex) - Matt & Bianca | May 25, 2018 | 12:20 | nUEeKwhYGOc | Matt, Bianca and Club Sapphire Night Manager Becky talk about all of the things that make being a swinger great, besides the sex. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| How to Join an Orgy Already in Progress - Matt & Bianca | May 1, 2018 | 17:35 | OaAP8z_3qc0 | We talk about the Do's and the Don'ts of trying to play with a couple or group that is already in the middle of things. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Having a Cold at A Swinger's Club, Stealthing & The Female Condom - Matt & Bianca | Apr 20, 2018 | 19:35 | HCeqaLDNmlk | We talk about not insulting people if you don't want to kiss them. Also "stealthing" is a topic that seems to come up occasionally. Plus, the advantages of a female condom. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Swinging with Couples of Different Experience Levels - Matt & Bianca | Mar 30, 2018 | 15:46 | k3GxoLifwkc | We talk about when couples that are new to the lifestyle swing with couples that have been doing it for a long time. Is it a good idea or is it better for new couples to play with new couples and experienced couples to play with experienced couples? Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Spotting Swingers In the Wild - Matt & Bianca | Jan 12, 2018 | 16:12 | XV7bu5bN3-4 | We talk about ways to tell if your vanilla friends are actually swingers. Also drinking and smoking in the Lifestyle. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Club Sapphire's Trip Report to Hedonism II - Matt & Bianca | Mar 24, 2018 | 15:40 | l5iHEVUPJLo | We talk about our recent trip to Hedo in Jamaica, the Ms No Swimsuit Contest and all of the other amazing Seattle folks that came on the trip too. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Real Swinger Interviews: Kat & Steve - Matt & Bianca | Feb 15, 2018 | 16:26 | NrI6HTHmarc | We interview Kat & Steve. They're a couple that met while in the lifestyle and are regulars at our club. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Finishing down a Stranger's Throat - Matt & Bianca | Feb 2, 2018 | 18:36 | qmhskVZ4twg | We talk about finishing down the throat of someone you just met. Is it polite? A social faux pas? Also, how to get into a MFM threesome. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Are there cliques at swinger clubs? - Matt & Bianca | Jan 5, 2018 | 18:39 | Zo1FAV3ue-I | We talk about women who are pregnant at swinger clubs, cliques and people who prefer not to swap spouses. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Real Swinger Interviews: Mariana & Marco - Matt & Bianca | Dec 28, 2017 | 15:41 | M9Zl4nMbJn8 | We talk to Mariana & Marco, this year's winner of the Ms. Sapphire contest. They will be representing Club Sapphire at the 2018 Ms No Swimsuit Contest at Hedonism II in Jamaica in March 2018. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Real Swinger Interviews: Brian & Trinity - Matt & Bianca | Dec 15, 2017 | 14:29 | IPA0ijgx3ck | We talk to Brian and Trinity, a sexy, younger, swinger couple. Check it out and let us know what you think! Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Real Swinger Interviews: Dave & Lisa - Matt & Bianca | Dec 9, 2017 | 17:10 | 015mFcOTQts | We talk to Dave and Lisa, a polyamorous, swinger couple. This was a really fun interview. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Real Swinger Interviews: Mike & Melody - Matt & Bianca | Nov 28, 2017 | 17:27 | WfmiQ2IZoQc | We talk to long time swingers, Mike and Melody. They talk about their adventures in the lifestyle, volunteering at your local club, and when to listen (or not listen) to your penis. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Real Swinger Interviews: Brian & Cynthia - Matt & Bianca | Nov 22, 2017 | 14:17 | l1ckFrn8es8 | We talk to Brian and Cynthia, two of the contestants of the Ms. No Swimsuit Contest. Although they are both fairly new to The Lifestyle, they love to play with other couples and have a great time. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| How to Have Sex on Your Period - Matt & Bethanie | Nov 17, 2017 | 16:27 | 645c7ucgSf4 | How you can make play possible while you're on your period. Also, how to squirt and what to do when you meet someone you know at a swinger club. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Not Playing with Another Couple Until You're Ready - Matt & Bethanie | Nov 12, 2017 | 18:27 | OegxF4j5L7U | every person is different with how quickly they move forward before having sex with another couple. Also how important is penis size in The Lifestyle. Lastly, how discriminating are swinger parties? Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Bisexual Men in The Lifestyle - Matt & Bethanie | Oct 17, 2017 | 23:11 | ZdUQ7mmqkcw | Bisexual men in the lifestyle, "taking one for the team" and how-to your first girl-girl experience. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Ask a Swinger Anything LIVE! - Matt & Bethanie | Oct 10, 2017 | 25:04 | sxwLaXT_508 | Matt & Bethanie answer your questions live. Some of these viewer's questions might make you blush... Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| The "No Kissing" Rule - Matt & Bethanie | Sep 22, 2017 | 25:33 | ZWn_pJdlcpU | Couples that will do everything but kiss. Also, schoolgirl outfits, getting vasectomies, and how it feels watching your Significant Other with another person. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Interview with Becky from Club Sapphire - Matt & Bethanie | Sep 8, 2017 | 27:10 | 1Uh1hP1Rbco | We talk to Becky, the Manager of Sapphire, Ms Club Sapphire winner and Ms No Swimsuit Winner of 2016. See why Club Sapphire is the premier lifestyle club in Washington. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Let's Talk About Fetishes - Matt & Bethanie | Aug 30, 2017 | 25:52 | RXvMq807s5c | Married vs. Unmarried Couples in The Lifestyle, the prevalence of bareback sex, fetishes and more. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Dealing with Jealousy in The Lifestyle - Matt & Bethanie | Aug 26, 2017 | 28:36 | NxEO6m8pxU0 | One of the most common problems with new couples: Jealousy. Also lifestyle dating sites and much more... Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Ask a Swinger Anything - Matt & Bethanie | Aug 18, 2017 | 26:42 | UOwxpEIhL9E | We answer your questions about the lifestyle. Conversations include how you can use swinger websites or Craig's List in conjunction with clubs when meeting people, is alcohol a good idea, plus you'll hear some of their craziest sex stories. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Unicorns at Club Sapphire - Matt & Bethanie | Aug 11, 2017 | 24:35 | Pqj57gQfgIc | Introducing Bethanie, Matt's girlfriend and a unicorn (bisexual, single woman) who frequents Club Sapphire. They talk about how to become a unicorn, being comfortable in a club environment as a sexually open woman, and, of course, how to pick up a unicorn if that's what you and your spouse are looking for. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Etiquette at Lifestyle Clubs and House Parties - Matt & Bianca | Jul 17, 2017 | 23:09 | QKgCczAjpHo | Etiquette when visiting a lifestyle club or going to a swinger's house party. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Condoms and Safety in The Lifestyle - Matt & Bianca | Jul 14, 2017 | 16:16 | 8SUQBPmTndE | condom use in The Lifestyle. Also, safety at swinger clubs and house parties. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| How to be a Successful Single Guy in The Lifestyle - Matt & Bianca | Jul 10, 2017 | 28:44 | oLb7ZV8QBkQ | Interview of Nick, a single guy and successful swinger. If you are a man, thinking about getting into the swinging lifestyle, you need to watch this video to learn what to do and what NOT to do. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Penis Size and Keeping an Erection in the Lifestyle - Matt & Bianca | Jun 29, 2017 | 27:48 | 3-LxxurjvKQ | How important is penis size in the swinging world. Also, what to do when having erectile dysfunction while playing with another couple. Then lastly, is it important to a woman for the man to ejaculate during sex? Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| How to Seal the Deal with Another Couple - Matt & Bianca | Jun 13, 2017 | 30:40 | zfxIePFfI0A | The hardest part when you meet a great couple is taking that step from just having a conversation into taking them into the playroom. Matt & Bianca talk about how to move forward at a club without seeming pushy. Also, how to politely say no if you are propositioned. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Rules and Boundaries When You're Swinging - Matt & Bianca | Jun 9, 2017 | 25:58 | npp6BRj1C6s | Every couple has rules. In this video, Matt & Bianca talk about the major differences between rules and boundaries, how to set them up, talk about them and what to do when they're bent or broken. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| How to Talk to Your Spouse About Swinging - Matt & Bianca | May 31, 2017 | 23:39 | Ll_x0JONG28 | Some great ways you can start the conversation with your significant other about becoming swingers. Also, it's fetish night at Club Sapphire. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Bringing your own sexy toys to Club Sapphire - Matt & Bianca | May 19, 2017 | 21:34 | 4ecT9DN3y9A | Matt & Bianca talk about if it's ok to bring your own toys in for playing. Also BDSM and the upcoming June Toy Party. Filmed in the Black Pearl Room at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Mid-Week Rendezvous at Club Sapphire - Matt & Bianca | May 12, 2017 | 25:33 | BOHCjDxiKR0 | If you've never been to Club Sapphire on a Wednesday, you're really missing out. Matt and Bianca talk about all the great reasons to check out a Mid-Week Rendezvous. From pole dancing classes to a more laid-back atmosphere, they talk about getting a better chance to connect with others and of course, Wednsedays are the ideal night if you're a single guy or gal. Filmed at Club Sapphire in Seattle. |
| Video Tour of Club Sapphire Lifestyle Club - Matt & Bianca | May 4, 2017 | 17:05 | 0dGK5JXBzb0 | If you've never been to Club Sapphire in Seattle, this is the video to watch. It is an introductory video with footage of the playrooms and much more. Learn about the different theme nights, what to wear, what nights to come and how to have a great time meeting other like-minded couples. |
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