Single Gents Guidelines & Rules

We are primarily a club for couples. We do allow one single gentleman, from our approved list, to attend our parties when a single female attends the same party. This keeps our numbers gender balanced for any given party. We are not a dating service or trying to match anyone up.

Exceptions to this rule are at the Wednesday night parties, Gang Bang Friday and our Bi Bi party (for bisexual women & men only). At these parties single males may attend with a reservation as long as they have been through an orientation, made reservations and are on our approved list.

ALL NEW gentlemen must ATTEND our Singles Orientation Class held Wednesdays at 7 pm.

You must reserve an Orientation prior to arrival at club.

How to Make an Orientation Reservation
After your have submitted an application, confirmed your email and selected a Username, you can select an event, click on Reserve Now and then reserve a spot for Orientation

NO ADMITTANCE WITHOUT AN ORIENTATION RESERVATION

Club Sapphire is a Private Lifestyle Club for Swingers. WE ARE NOT A BROTHELWe are a social club for people in the lifestyle community. As a single gent or husband you play an important role in the lifestyle. Many of our members do enjoy the company of a respectful gentleman or men. This is the reason some couples attend Club Sapphire. The best place to meet up with another couple or a single woman is in the dance/bar area. Trying to connect with couples in the playrooms DOES NOT WORK!

NEVER COME TO A PARTY AND EXPECT THAT YOU WILL HAVE SEX.  We are a social club and community FIRST!

RESPECT is the key to everyone having a good time.

  1. THE GOLDEN RULE “NO means NO” – No one should ever need to say it twice or even very loud. Anyone at anytime can say NO, even if you are in the middle of an encounter and they decide to change their minds!
  2. NO TOUCHING WITHOUT VERBAL PERMISSION – Always ask first, even if you see a group of others involved!
  3. APPROACH THE LADIES WITH RESPECT – If a single lady or wife is interested in you, let them approach you. Approach the husband/boyfriend and treat him with respect. It is considered polite to talk with both partners. Make conversations with him first before talking to his wife/girlfriend. Be patient and polite during the evening.
  4. ALCOHOL – Drunkenness will not be tolerated. This is not a bar to get drunk in.
  5. You are REQUIRED to act like a gentleman and be courteous at all times.
  6. DON’T BE CREEPY – NO HARASSMENT – This includes: Gawking at the lady members, asking for phone numbers, and asking for sex more than once. Jacking off in public is creepy! If you are interested in swinging with someone, let him or her know in an inviting way. If they are interested, they will respond positively. If they are not and say “No, thank you,” NEVER ASK WHY or ask a second time.
  7. PLAY ROOMS –You are NEVER allowed to enter the play areas by yourself. You may not walk or cruise  the hallways. You must be with a partner in the playrooms and back hallways. If we see you alone in a play room, you will be asked to leave the premises. YOU WILL BE REMOVED FROM OUR APPROVED SINGLE MALE LIST!

If at any time you break ANY of the rules, you will be escorted out and you may be banned from ever returning. NO REFUNDS, NO 2nd CHANCES. Remember, it is a PRIVILEGE for single gents to be invited to a Lifestyles Club, so don’t jeopardize your privilege.

Find out more of What To Expect at Club Sapphire.

 If you have any Questions Contact Us.

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Event Guidelines

Over the years our guests have found that these simple guidelines make parties enjoyable, safe and fun for everyone.

1. Consent! Consent! Consent! Please remember to ask before touching. Verbal consent is important! Sexual assault/harassment is real and will be taken seriously.

2. The biggest rule is “NO means NO”. No person, male or female, should have to say no twice, nor explain an answer of “No thank you”.

3. Absolutely no illegal drugs, over indulgence of alcohol or fighting are ever allowed.

4. Practice safe sex! Condoms are promoted and provided.

5. Respect each other. We have members of all body shapes and sizes, professions, education, religions, ethnic background and sexual orientations and desires.

6. NO PHOTOGRAPHY OR USE OF CELL PHONES IN ANY OF THE SOCIAL AREAS OR PLAYROOMS.

7. DON'T BE CREEPY.

8. Respect the rules of the venue. Since some of our special events take place in hotels or resorts, it is important to respect their rules; such as where clothing is optional and where sexual activity is permitted.

If you have any questions, please Contact Us .

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